julia_goolia on February 25th, 2008 07:01 pm (UTC)
what?! pay me back, that's silly! can't you transfer it to your new account. there's no way you're giving that back to me, sweets. [puts on elf ears and liv tyler lips] it was a gift! besides, LJ should have some thing about transferring the paid time. right?
i've seen a couple of torchwood episodes on tv but i haven't really kept up...i could rent the series on netflix though. what season should i start with? the first?
Well, I think paid time is $25, and since you got it so recently for caplinsea I feel like it's going to waste. I'd see about transferring paid time, but, I already paid for this journal.
Can I buy you like a jared leto poster or something? :p Like anything that you want? I really want to pay you back somehow! (and no I wont let this go until you let me repay you :p)
I would say to start from the beginning, that's what I did, and I got really hooked. In the meantime though I would scavange youtube to check out clips and stuff :p
julia_goolia on February 26th, 2008 08:59 pm (UTC)
please, don't get me anything! i really don't feel slighted or anything about it, so i hope you're not uncomfortable over it either. do you have a friend who could use the paid time? there's no need to buy me anything with YOUR gift money. haha! that's silly.... :P
I would say to start from the beginning, that's what I did, and I got really hooked. well, i'll have to do the netflix queue then...oh, LORD, help me!!! lol!
I am Very glad to have you here! You are an absolute sweetheart and I've loved having you on my flist these past few years :)
I don't know what to do about V/O. I feel like I know the truth to what goes on there and I'm happy with that ;) It's how I've been treated by some people that have made me want to leave fandom.
This whole fandom rift just has me in tears. I just don't understand why people can't get along, *especially* if we share the same love? Why is suddenly so hard? Why the wank? You know? I mean, maybe I look at things too simplistically or god forbid--with too much hope, but I thought it was supposed to be about love for one another and love for two men that have been so special and have meant so much to us over the years. I feel like the one thing I have left is falling down around me and once again, I'm losing something I love.
I miss you at vigorli_stills and you're always welcome there. hammil77 and I are running it right now and Jen's taking some time away and I'm not sure if she'll return or not. I'm going to do everything in my power to help this fandom stay alive, but sadly, I'm just me. Frankly, I think most people don't think of me as being anything important to V/O, so I don't know what good I can actually do, but I'm hanging on with everything I have.
Please don't let this issue with Jen color our friendship. I really think I can not let lines cross and stay true to everyone. I've always been good at mediating and since I have no idea what goes on in fandom because no one includes me, you can think of me as a third party assistance for resolution. ;) I'm pretty diplomatic. It's come with a lot of practice.
Thanks for having me and trust I won't share anything you say to me with anyone. No on really talks to me anyway. What's a chat? You know?
Well, in short, it's my view that there are just so many conflicting opinions in this fandom, and most people just can't handle it if someone else's opinoin is different than theirs. Trust me I'm not happy about any of this.
Aww, well, the reason I left vo_stills had nothing to do with fandom but just my suckage at icon making lol.
You've brought up a lot of issues in this comment, all stuff I would be happy to discuss with you, not here necessarily though.
Do you have an email address I can contact you at? Also, if you are looking for someone to chat with, I use a few different instant messengers and I'd be more than happy to chat with you :)
I want to continue this, hopefully we can clear through some stuff. :)
Absolutely! You can find me at Ara at kixxster dot org
And I don't think you sucked at icons--not at all!!!
I'm actually better at e-mails than chatting. I used to chat every night with my sis but that all changed when mom died. I haven't signed on IM since then. It's jsut like the life has been sucked out of me. I keep thinking I'll get over it and get back on IM, but so far, I haven't had the urge. I just mentioned that as a for instance because I know chats go on and BNF's chat and I've never been included in that and it just makes me feel like I'm useless. If that makes sense.
Please, do e-mail me. I'd love to talk more with you. And it's gonna take me a long time to think of you as this new ID. LOL So please bear with me. I tend to be a little slow these days with remembering stuff. *hugs*
I've *tried* to make myself use IM--I used it every single night for almost 10 years and now, I can't bear the thought of turning it on. Between losing mom, a stalker, losing a good friend and issues here, I've frankly just lost the will. *sigh*
Well, I'm glad you are staying on lj in one form or another. You may have missed out on my own personal drama a couple of months ago. I thought about slinking away from lj after that. But I didn't. Yes, sometimes lj sucks, but overall, I enjoy the experience and I wasn't going to let some bitch ruin it for me. So I'm glad you didn't decide to leave. :)
Just a ton of drama in the viggorli fandom. Very unpleasant stuff.
Yeah, if I had left completely that would have just been letting the people who were trying to ruin it for me win. And I do have real friends here that I don't want to turn away from. I'm glad you've joined me over here!